ALL I HAVE TO GIVE

You're the first thing I think of

Each morning when I rise.
Youre the last thing I think of.
Each night when I close my eyes.
Youre in each thought I have
And every breath I take.
My feelings are growing stonger
With every move I make.
I want to prove I love you
But thats the hardest part.
So, Im giving all I have to give
To you . . . I give my heart.

FOOL (NOT A LOVE STORY)

The night is gone and you are gone. How timing it is for last night I was still reading my monologue written 9 months ago when I'm still in love with you (more appropriately, emotionally attached with you); and when I woke up, you greeted me goodmorning that felt like a goodbye. You're in love but not with me--contrary to what you've been crying about for how many months that passed. Last month was the last time you told me you love me and today, you told me you're in love with her--a woman you've been meeting online for 6 months that you finally met in person. I'm hurt. It's like an overnight romance that ended when the morning came. See, I still have a hangover over the emotions that somehow managed to resurface, though not intense, while I was reading last night. I am hurt because I believed you when you told me you love me. I am hurt because I assumed and hoped that you are still hoping for my love after telling you that we need to end our communication so you can get over me. But damn! Why do I feel sad when you're already happy with her. And the last time you are crying because of me, I also felt sad. Why do I have to feel the same when I finally got what I wanted--for you to get over me? I did not expect myself to feel this way. I felt like a heartbroken fool (but the pain is, thankfully, bearable).But what difference does it make? I'm still a heartbroken fool. And you let me feel this way after loving me? Or was it really love? I hope you're happy now and I hope that I get over you getting over me (just like in a song).

TASTING THE RAIN :)

Looking in your eyes I feel myself falling in love with you You said I love you And I said it too We went to our very own special spot For no real reason at all We sat and talked and looked at one another And then the rain began to fall We could have left just as quick as we came But no, you wanted to stay in the rain You asked me a question I ’ll never forget Have you ever tasted the raindrops? I looked at you funny and you gave me a sigh The cutest look, as I wondered, why? Why, did you ask me to taste the rain? Well, what did have to loose or gain? I watched you with a careful eye And did the same as you You were looking up at the cloudy sky But my eyes were stuck on you like glue I lifted my head to look at the sky And closed my eyes really tight Just as I thought I ’d caught a raindrop You suddenly held me tight I opened my eyes with slight alarm As you kissed me soft and sweet I remember that kiss like it was yesterday I still feel those raindrops on my cheek I tasted the raindrops like I never had before It was worth every second of bliss Every time I think of that moment I think of my raindrop kiss We sat close together on that one special rock And we held each other tight Then almost as suddenly as it came The sun came out from beneath the rain The most beautiful colors I’ve ever seen Came out on the western sky The sun was setting and the moment was perfect More than any money could buy As the sun slowly set and the sky lit up You began carving our names in our special rock I told you I would never forget this moment In my heart this memory is locked As our names were finished and permanently engraved We watched the sun finish its day We slowly got up to leave this place Which was a year ago this May I haven’t been to that spot in a year Where did all the time go? I will visit this place alone this time And I will finally have to let go This memory will be in my heart forever But you will not remain in my mind I don ’t know if that love, will be seen again For that love I cannot find I will go to this spot as we promised we would But you will not be there this time Why is it that you can ’t keep your promise? I know that I ’m keeping mine Never again will I taste the raindrops The way I did with you And when I go to this spot again I will say goodbye to you.

EXCITEMENT

It started suddenly, almost without warning. Then slowly, it traveled down. I close my eyes and felt the tears rushing down my cheeks. Yes, here it is. The gush of joy filling my heart.

In a split second, I hear the most familiar laughter of all: the laughter that tears my heart and heals it as soon as it breaks. Then I forced my mind so I can take a glimpse of that person styling that laughter. And then I saw him: the face I would never ever forget. It is the face that wore the big black eyes that contain the most shining stars I've never seen in the night sky which I could only stare at in amazement. And it wore the most beautiful lips that I've ever tasted in my whole life. It was perfect.

I reached for the face so I can feel it's softness while my eyes remain shut. And then I felt it. It was as soft as a pillow. And I love it. I ran the back of my fingers across the softness of that skin. It was astonishingly almost real.

I smiled, then I opened my eyes. And I saw my hand resting on my pillow. I must have been out of my mind but my lips remained curved up.

Tomorrow, I would even kiss that pillow. And tomorrow, that pillow would even kiss me back passionately. Tomorrow, that face will no longer be a pillow because tomorrow I will be seeing my love. 

HEART TRANSPLANT-a change of HEART

When the heart wears ofF and Losses it's functiOn.., all medical interventions were already done and repairs were already made but still the heart can't retrieve it's function, the last resort is surgery-transplantation..

Transplantation is very risky.. Nothing is certain in this kind of operation.. There are no guarantees.. But still some people take the risk just to lengthen their lives..

ComplicateD?? Yeah right.. buT i'm nOt going to discusS heart transplantation.. Many books discussed about it already..

What i'm gonna relate about the topic is about broken hearts.. I knOw heart's isn't the control center for emotions but it's a coMmon beLIef it's ur heart beats when you're in Love...

What if your heart's aLready tired of Loving soMeoNe just as how it becomes tired of pumping bLOod duE TO a severe disEase??.., When your heart seems so weak making it's functioN to dEteriorate.., When your heart seems so fuLL Of probLEms and pains that may explode anytime.., when it seems like nothing's gonna mend.., wouLd transplant heLp??.. I knOw it's impOssibLE.. a change of heart dOesn't mean a change in emOtioN..

But what if it's posSibLE?? Would you gamble?? What if when your heart's changed, your fEeLings' aLso change??.. WouLd you try??..

If oNLy mending and forgetTing sOmeOne's that easy.. If oNLy that was pOsSibLE..,, i wouLd Take the risks....

MY HEARTBREAKING REALITY

Just wen i th0ught i've f0und true l0ve.. Just wen i th0ught i've f0und d 1 God made 4 me.. Just wen i f0und d reas0n t0 be happy -- failure came and caught me..

Just wen i th0ught y0u're d 1 4 me,just wen i already did my part fighting 4u fr0m my family.. Just wen i t0ld myslf i will nver let u g0 -- u just left me here crying all al0ne..

Just wen i have l0ved y0u with all of me.. Just wen i believed all y0ur lies.. Just wen i accepted all y0ur alibies -- u t0ld me she's d one..

I never th0ught of l0sing u -- but n0w i must accept dat fact.. i never th0ught of n0t seeing u n0 m0re -- but datz wat i have to d0..

Such a f0ol of me.. Such a s0-highsch0ol-attitude i have.. Such a f0olish me.. i made myslf believe, i have d BEST.. i have wat i WANT.. i have watz 4ME..

N0w i have to accept d fact.. D 0ne i th0ught God reserved 4 me,was just sum1 i have to let go.. sum1 i have to 4get.. Sum1 that has just came into my lyf to gve me a less0n -- dat n0t 0l d pip0l u meet was meant to be der 4ever lyk wat they pr0mised to be..

PIECE OF CRAP

Loving and being loved is lyk having the gift of flight,..
Or the cursed clumsiness of willingly stumbling and falling from a treacherous cliff...

Unearthly exuberance of weightlesness.
Love is my wing,and the clouds that dance beneath my feet lifts me afloat.
Beyond the tides of endless despair and melancholy,their is love that uplifts,
love that puts you in its pedestal of rancour and bliss,..

Then the law of gravity intercedes...
And the feathery feeling of bouyancy leads to a gut renching freefall..
A long and savage drop to an unfathomable void



...And so the myth begins..


They say that when you love you fall...Thus the cliche "fallen in love with you"..And for lots of times some of us have fallen and stumbled..
The scars left behind are superficial,
the wounds engraved too deep.
Love can be the torrential shower that kisses the leaves,and awakens the buds.
It spawns rebirth,.

And then it broods,
the clear spectre darkens and a stab of lightning pierces the humble land and deafening roars of thunder impregnates it with savage glee...

Love is the thieft in the night,
the robber in broad daylight.
You know what it steals,
you like what it takes.
The only anger that we harbor in our soul is the regret that it did not stay.
You fed it with your hapiness,
you pampered it with joy...
In the end it ran aloof with the thing you dare not live apart...
your stubborn, gullible heart...

THE KISS

It was still quite light out of doors, but inside with the curtains drawn and the smouldering fire sending out a dim, uncertain glow, the room was full of deep shadows. Brantain sat in one of these shadows; it had overtaken him and he did not mind. The obscurity lent him courage to keep his eyes fastened as ardently as he liked upon the girl who sat in the firelight. She was very handsome, with a certain fine, rich coloring that belongs to the healthy brune type. She was quite composed, as she idly stroked the satiny coat of the cat that lay curled in her lap, and she occasionally sent a slow glance into the shadow where her companion sat. They were talking low, of indifferent things which plainly were not the things that occupied their thoughts. She knew that he loved her—a frank, blustering fellow without guile enough to conceal his feelings, and no desire to do so. For two weeks past he had sought her society eagerly and persistently. She was confidently waiting for him to declare himself and she meant to accept him. The rather insignificant and unattractive Brantain was enormously rich; and she liked and required the entourage which wealth could give her. During one of the pauses between their talk of the last tea and the next reception the door opened and a young man entered whom Brantain knew quite well. The girl turned her face toward him. A stride or two brought him to her side, and bending over her chair—before she could suspect his intention, for she did not realize that he had not seen her visitor—he pressed an ardent, lingering kiss upon her lips. Brantain slowly arose; so did the girl arise, but quickly, and the newcomer stood between them, a little amusement and some defiance struggling with the confusion in his face. "I believe," stammered Brantain, "I see that I have stayed too long. I—I had no idea—that is, I must wish you good-by." He was clutching his hat with both hands, and probably did not perceive that she was extending her hand to him, her presence of mind had not completely deserted her; but she could not have trusted herself to speak. "Hang me if I saw him sitting there, Nattie! I know it's deuced awkward for you. But I hope you'll forgive me this once—this very first break. Why, what's the matter?" "Don't touch me; don't come near me," she returned angrily. "What do you mean by entering the house without ringing?" "I came in with your brother, as I often do," he answered coldly, in self-justification. "We came in the side way. He went upstairs and I came in here hoping to find you. The explanation is simple enough and ought to satisfy you that the misadventure was unavoidable. But do say that you forgive me, Nathalie," he entreated, softening. "Forgive you! You don't know what you are talking about. Let me pass. It depends upon—a good deal whether I ever forgive you." At that next reception which she and Brantain had been talking about she approached the young man with a delicious frankness of manner when she saw him there. "Will you let me speak to you a moment or two, Mr. Brantain?" she asked with an engaging but perturbed smile. He seemed extremely unhappy; but when she took his arm and walked away with him, seeking a retired corner, a ray of hope mingled with the almost comical misery of his expression. She was apparently very outspoken. "Perhaps I should not have sought this interview, Mr. Brantain; but—but, oh, I have been very uncomfortable, almost miserable since that little encounter the other afternoon. When I thought how you might have misinterpreted it, and believed things"—hope was plainly gaining the ascendancy over misery in Brantain's round, guileless face—"Of course, I know it is nothing to you, but for my own sake I do want you to understand that Mr. Harvy is an intimate friend of long standing. Why, we have always been like cousins—like brother and sister, I may say. He is my brother's most intimate associate and often fancies that he is entitled to the same privileges as the family. Oh, I know it is absurd, uncalled for, to tell you this; undignified even," she was almost weeping, "but it makes so much difference to me what you think of—of me." Her voice had grown very low and agitated. The misery had all disappeared from Brantain's face. "Then you do really care what I think, Miss Nathalie? May I call you Miss Nathalie?" They turned into a long, dim corridor that was lined on either side with tall, graceful plants. They walked slowly to the very end of it. When they turned to retrace their steps Brantain's face was radiant and hers was triumphant. Harvy was among the guests at the wedding; and he sought her out in a rare moment when she stood alone. "Your husband," he said, smiling, "has sent me over to kiss you." A quick blush suffused her face and round polished throat. "I suppose it's natural for a man to feel and act generously on an occasion of this kind. He tells me he doesn't want his marriage to interrupt wholly that pleasant intimacy which has existed between you and me. I don't know what you've been telling him," with an insolent smile, "but he has sent me here to kiss you." She felt like a chess player who, by the clever handling of his pieces, sees the game taking the course intended. Her eyes were bright and tender with a smile as they glanced up into his; and her lips looked hungry for the kiss which they invited. "But, you know," he went on quietly, "I didn't tell him so, it would have seemed ungrateful, but I can tell you. I've stopped kissing women; it's dangerous." Well, she had Brantain and his million left. A person can't have everything in this world; and it was a little unreasonable of her to expect it.

GOODBYE :(

Come sit by my side...
Let's place the lies aside.

There is something I have to state...
That might change our very fate.

It's true you were the best love I ever met...
And a love I never plan at all to regret.

But the same way it can arrive...
Doesn't mean that forever it will stay alive.

Let's not talk about it because maybe...
I will have to stay if you beg me please.

I'll just prefer not to hide the fact...
The love we had is not anymore intact.

I'm sorry but there is nothing I can do...
It's best if we go back to being just two.

Truth is that I have given it thought...
After all, this is the solution it brought.

So it is best I don't wait another day...
Doesn't really matter in which way...
To say goodbye is all I have to do is say.

BEFORE I LET YOU GO ..

When we were still together,
I truly loved you,
but what’s happening right now,
I guess we are through,
it’s really hard for me,
to get off with you.
but I know this might be good
for both me and you.

I love you but i have to
set you free,
I’ve come to realized that
you’re no longer happy with me.
Even tho’ it hurts, I have
to say “good bye”
It’s really hard for me to
live without you, but
promise i would try to move on.

It hurts me so much but i have
to let you go.
But before letting you go,
there’s one thing i want you to know….
I just want you to know that
“I am always here for you,
whenever you need a friend,
to lean on en shoulder to cry on”
Before i let you go, i want to say
that someday…soon…
You gonna MISS ME…..

My heart is like a whore
For I've given it to many men.
Without questions, without expectations;
With only one exception:
The only thing I've ever asked for;
The only thing I've ever expected
Was for their love in return.
But without exception, without fail
Each one took my heart,
Crumpled it up, and threw it away.
Like my love was worthless, a simple piece of trash;
Something that was easily and frequently discarded.
So now pieces of my heart are floating around,
Like pieces of paper tumbling in the wind
And I have to gather them up.
But some of them will be lost forever;
Some of them I'll never be able to find again.
But those pieces that I do regain,
I will try to put back together with what remains
So my fragmented heart will once again be whole.
For now I realize that it isn't worthless
My love is valuable, priceless
And I'm saving it for someone who will treasure it;
Who will treat it like a special gift
That I've given to him and no one else.
And I hope that he will forgive me
For the pieces that I gave away before.

FALLING INLOVE :)

It is a mystery why we fall in love.
It is a mystery how it happens.
It is a mystery when it comes.
It is a mystery why some love grows and it is a mystery why some love fails.
You can analyze this mystery and look for reasons and causes, but you will never do anymore than take the life out of the experience..

Just as life itself is more than the sum of the bones and muscles and electrical impulses in the body, love is more than the sum of the interests and attractions and commonalities that two people share.
And just as life is a gift that comes and goes in its own time, so too, the coming of love must be taken as an unfathomable gift that cannot be questioned in its ways.
Sometimes, hopefully at least once in your life - the gift of love will come to you in full flower, and you will take hold of it and celebrate it in all inexpressible beauty. 

This is the dream we all share.

More often, it will come and take hold of you, celebrate you for a brief moment, then move on. When this happens to young people, they too often try to grasp the love and hold it to them, refusing to see that it is gift that is freely given and a gift that just as freely, moves away.

When they fall out of love, or the person they love feels the spirit of love leaving, they try desperately to reclaim the love that is lost rather than accepting the gift for what it was, then moving on.
They want answers where there are no answers. 

They want to know what is wrong in them that makes the other person no longer love them, or they try to get their lover to change, thinking that if some small things were different, love would bloom again.

They blame their circumstances and say that if they go far away and start a new life together, their love will grow.

They try anything to give meaning to what happened. 

But there is no meaning beyond the love itself, and until they accept its own mysterious ways, they live in a sea of misery.
You need to know this about love, and to accept it. You need to treat what it brings you with kindness.If you find yourself in love with someone who does not love you, be gentle with yourself. 

There is nothing wrong with you.

Love just didn’t choose to rest in the other person’s heart.
If you find someone else in love with you and you don’t love her, feel honoured that love came and called at your door, but gently refuse the gift you cannot return.

 Do not take advantage, do not cause pain. 

How you deal with love is how you deal with you, and all our hearts feel the same pains and joys, even if our lives and ways are different.
If you fall in love with another, and she falls in love with you, and then love chooses to leave, do not try to reclaim it or to assess blame. 

Let it go.

There is a reason and there is a meaning. 

You will know in time.
Remember that you don’t choose love. Love chooses you. 

All you can really do is accept it for all its mystery when it comes into your life. 

Feel the way it fills you to overflowing, then reach out and give it away.
Give it back to the person who brought it alive in you. Give it to others who deem it poor in spirit.

Give it to the world around you in anyway you can. This is where many lovers go wrong.

Having been so long without love, they understand love only as a need. 

They see their hearts as empty places that will be filled by love, and they begin to look at love as something that flows to them rather than from them.
The first blush of new love is filled to overflowing, but as their love cools, they revert to seeing their love as a need. 

They cease to be someone who generates love and instead becomes someone who seeks love.

They forget that the secret of love is that it is a gift, and that it can be made to grow only by giving it away..
Remember this, and keep it to your heart. 

Love has its own time, its own seasons, and its own reasons for coming and going. 

You cannot bribe it or coerce it, or reason it into staying. 

You can only embrace it when it arrives and give it away when it comes to you. 

But if it choose to leave from your heart or from the heart of your lover, there is nothing you can do and there is nothing you should do.
Love always has been and always will be a mystery.

Be glad that it came to live for a moment in your life.
If you keep your heart open, it will come again. 

LETTING GO AND MOVING ON

Step, step, step, and more and more steps.. away and away, until he is out of my sight, until i couldnt feel his presence, until i cant sense his breath, until ive forgotten his smell, until he lost control of me, until he can no longer affect my system, until he is no longer like a heroin that runs in my veins, until i can stand strong in front of him, until i can say his name and feel nothing, until i can recall his memories without the tears, until i am free... then, i will be back, for i know ive been healed. then i could look him in the eyes and tell him i forgive him. then i could stare at him, smiling like an old friends. it would be toilsome to move away. it was such an effort to let go. but i know, if i wanna be healed, then i must. like a kid who is afraid of the needle, but knows an injection is needed to be cured, then i will take the courage to face whatever it takes to be free from the baggage of yesterday; then i will be free to love again.  "bakit labis mong dinaramdam pagkakamali mo't kabiguan? may magagawa ka ba kundi ang magpasyang bumangon at muling magsimula? panahon ay tumatakbo, pagbabago ay nasa kamay mo. may naghihintay sayo, hindi nanghuhusga, isang Amang nagmamahal sayo. habang buhay may pag-asa ka dahil kaylan ma'y di ka nag-iisa. di mo man napapansin, sya ay kasama mo, Isang Amang nagmamahal sayo. Kung ikaw ay inuunawa Nya, bakit di mo magawang limutin? ang iyong pinapasan Kanyang hinihingi upang malaya kang makapagmahal...!"

TRUE MEASURE OF A MAN

What makes me fall for a guy? It’s not his perfectly cute face.. It’s not the biceps and triceps around his arms.. It’s not his oooh lala chest.. It’s not the sexy back he brings.. It’s not his abs-to-die-for.. It’s not the concavity of his lower back.. It’s not the hotness of his pelvis.. And it’s not the hugeness of his dick. I’d fall for a guy who… Knows how to make me laugh, even at the corniest joke.. Has that boyish attitude.. Yet mature in a lot of ways.. Can converse interestingly.. And knows how to sweet talk me.. Looks straight into my eyes while talking.. Will fight with me over silly things.. Makes me feel important and loved.. Hugs me and kisses me sincerely.. Has sensible philosophies in life.. Is real to himself and doesn’t pretend.. And someone I can grow old together with. I’m not setting any qualifications for my ideal guy. Cause I believe, as I’ve always experienced, that I still fall for the exceptions. I’m not looking for a perfect guy, ‘cause his flaws can be the perfect imperfections..,

GIRLS NEED TO REALIZE

We guys don't care if you talk to other guys. We don't care if you're friends with other guys. But when you're sitting next to us, and some random guy walks into the room and you jump up and tackle him, without even introducing us, yeah, it pisses us off. It doesn't help if you sit there and talk to him for ten minutes without even acknowledging the fact that we're still there. We don't care if a guy calls OR TEXTS you, but at 2 in the morning we do get a little concerned. Nothing is that important at 2 am that it can't wait till the morning. Also, when we tell you you're pretty/beautiful/gorgeous/cute/stunning, we freaking mean it. Don't tell us we're wrong. We'll stop trying to convince you. The sexiest thing about a girl is confidence. Yeah, you can quote me. Don't be mad when we hold the door open. Take Advantage of the mood I'm in. Let us pay for you!Dont 'feel bad.We enjoy doing it. It's expected. Smile and say "thank you". Kiss us when no one's watching. If you kiss us when you know somebody's looking, we'll be more impressed. You don't have to get dressed up for us. If we're going out with you in the first place, you don't have to feel the need to wear the shortest skirt you have or put on every kind of makeup you own. We like you for who you are and not what you are. Honestly, i think a girl looks more beautiful when she's just in her pj's. Or my tshirt and boxers, not all dolled up. Don't take everything we say seriously. Sarcasm is a beautiful thing. See the beauty in it. Don't get angry easily. Stop using magazines/media as your bible. Don't talk about how hot Chris Brown, Brad Pitt, or Jesse McCartney is in front of us. It's boring, and we don't care. You have girlfriends for that. Whatever happened to the word "handsome"/'beautiful" I'd be utterly stunned by a girl who greeted me with "Hey handsome!" instead of "Hey baby/stud/cutie/sexy" or whatever else you can think of. On the other hand I'm not saying I wouldn't like it either  Girls, I cannot stress this enough: if you aren't being treated right by a guy, don't wait for him to change! Ditch his sorry butt, disgrace to the male population and find someone who will treat you with utter respect. Someone who will honor your morals. Someone who will make you smile when you're at your lowest. Someone who will care for you even when you make mistakes. Someone who will love you, no matter how bad you make them feel. Someone who will stop what they're doing just to look you in the eyes....and say "I love you" ..and actually mean it. Give the nice guys a chance. Guys repost this if you agree. Girls repost this if you think it's cute. Every Guy who isn't a jerk will agree with this,so we hope that all the girls that read this will repost this. ADVICE: *Holding Hands Girls: If you want to hold his hand, gently bump into it a couple of times. Guys: Guys, if the girl keeps bumping your arm, she's not clumsy, she wants you to grab her hand! Kiss it too, if so. *Movies Girls: During a movie, if he puts his arm around you, tilt your head on his shoulder. Guys: Lift her chin up and kiss her. *Loving each other Guys: When she tells you she loves you, look deep into her eyes, give her a peck on the lips, and tell her you love her too... And mean it. *Laying below the stars Girls: When you're both laying under the stars, put your head on his chest and close your eyes as you listen to his steady heartbeat. Guys: Whisper in her ear and link your hands with hers. By 12 am tonight, your one true love will realize how much they want you.. if you forward this on. Guys forward this if you agree, girls forward this if you think it's cute. Girls, repost this as: Written by a guy Boys, repost this as: Girls need to realize.. 

PAIN PAIN GO AWAY!

Pain pain go away! Please do not come back another day. Tears falling down my face oh how I wish now for her warm embrace. Wonder if she cares about me. Wonder if this is suppose to be. How can she leave me here like this and hurt my heart,How did we allow us to grow so far apart? My dreams of us being happy is maybe not going to come true, all I am feeling now is down and blue.Pain pain go away! Bring me back to another day, where she was mine and cared for me and we thought we were meant to be. I will not stop loving you that much is true, but I will be stronger in time and not feel so blue. You will always be in my heart even when we are apart. Sumtime I will have that warm embrace and tears will stoptflowing down my face. Pain pain go away leave me alone and do not stay.

99 Secrets Girls Have to Know about Guys :)

1. Guys don't actually look after good-looking girls. They prefer neat and presentable girls. 2. Guys hate flirts. 3. A guy can like you for a minute, and then forget you afterwards. 4. When a guy says he doesn't understand you, it simply means you're not thinking the way he is. 5. "Are you doing something?" or "Have you eaten already?" are the first usual questions a guy asks on the phone just to get out from stammering. 6. Guys may be flirting around all day but before they go to sleep, they always think about the girl they truly care about. 7. When a guy really likes you, he'll disregard all your bad characteristics. 8. Guys go crazy over a girl's smile. 9. Guys will do anything just to get the girl's attention. 10. Guys hate it when you talk about your ex-boyfriend. 11. When guys want to meet your parents. Let them. 12. Guys want to tell you many things but they can't. And they sure have one habit to gain courage and spirit to tell you many things and it is drinking! 13. Guys cry!!! 14. Don't provoke the guy to heat up. Believe me. He will. 15. Guys can never dream and hope too much. 16. Guys usually try hard to get the girl who has dumped them, and this makes it harder for them to accept their defeat. 17. When you touch a guy's heart, there's no turning back. 18. Giving a guy a hanging message like "You know what? Uh...never mind!" would make him jump to a conclusion that is far from what you are thinking. 19. Guys go crazy when girls touch their hands. 20. Guys are good flatterers when courting but they usually stammer when they talk to a girl they really like. 21. When a guy makes a prolonged "umm" or makes any excuses when you're asking him to do you a favor, he's actually saying that he doesn't like you and he can't lay down the card for you. 22. When a girl says "no", a guy hears it as "try again tomorrow." 23. You have to tell a guy what you really want before he gets the message clearly. 24. Guys hate gays. 25. Guys love their moms. 26. A guy would sacrifice his money for lunch just to get you a couple of roses. 27. A guy often thinks about the girl who likes him. But this doesn't mean that the guy likes her. 28 You can never understand him unless you listen to him. 29. If a guy tells you he loves you once in a lifetime. He does. 30. Beware. Guys can make gossips scatter through half of the face of the earth faster than girls can. 31. Like Eve, girls are guys' weaknesses. 32. Guys are very open about themselves. 33. Its good to test a guy first before you believe him. But don't let him wait that long. 34. No guy is bad when he is courting 35. Guys hate it when their clothes get dirty. Even a small dot. 36. Guys really admire girls that they like even if they're not that much pretty. 37. Your best friend, whom your boyfriend seeks help from about his problems with you may end up being admired by your boyfriend. 38. If a guy tells you about his problems, he just needs someone to listen to him. You don't need to give advice. 39. A usual act that proves that the guy likes you is when he teases you. 40. A guy finds ways to keep you off from linking with someone else. 41. Guys love girls with brains more than girls in miniskirts. 42. Guys try to find the stuffed toy a girl wants but would unluckily get the wrong one. 43. Guys virtually brag about anything. 44. Guys cannot keep secrets that girls tell them. 45. Guys think too much. 46. Guys' fantasies are unlimited. 47. Girls' height doesn't really matter to a guy but her weight does! 48. Guys tend to get serious with their relationship and become too possessive. So watch out girls!!! 49. When a girl makes the boy suffer during courtship, it would be hard for him to let go of that girl. 50. It's not easy for a guy to let go of his girlfriend after they broke up especially when they've been together for 3 years or more. 51. You have to tell a guy what you really want before getting involved with that guy. 52. A guy has to experience rejection, because if he's toonever- been-busted, never been in love and hurt, he won't be matured and grow up. 53. When an unlikable circumstance comes, guys blame themselves a lot more than girls do. They could even hurt themselves physically. 54. Guys have strong passion to change but have weak will power. 55. Guys are tigers in their peer groups but become tamed p******cats with their girlfriends. 56. When a guy pretends to be calm, check if he's sweating. You'll probably see that he is nervous. 57. When a guy says he is going crazy about the girl. He really is. 58. When a guy asks you to leave him alone, he's just actually saying, "Please come and listen to me" 59. Guys don't really have final decisions. 60. When a guy loves you, bring out the best in him. 61. If a guy starts to talk seriously, listen to him. 62. If a guy has been kept shut or silent, say something. 63. Guys believe that there's no such thing as love at first sight, but court the girls anyway and then realize at the end that he is wrong. 64. Guys like femininity not feebleness. 65. Guys don't like girls who punch harder than they do. 66. A guy may instantly know if the girl likes him but can never be sure unless the girl tells him. 67. A guy would waste his time over video games and basketball, the way a girl would do over her romance novels and make-ups. 68. Guys love girls who can cook or bake. 69. Guys like girls who are like their moms. No kidding! 70. A guy has more problems than you can see with your unclothed eyes. 71. A guy's friend knows everything about him. Use this to your advantage. 72.. Don't be a snob. Guys may easily give up on the first sign of rejection. 73.. Don't be biased. Try loving a guy without prejudice and you'll be surprised. 74. Girls who bathe in their eau de perfumes do more repelling than attracting guys. 75. Guys are more talkative than girls are especially when the topic is about girls. 76. Guys don't comprehend the statement "Get lost" too well. 77. Guys really think that girls are strange and have unpredictable decisions but still love them more. 78. When a guy gives a crooked or pretentious grin at your jokes, he finds them offending and he just tried to be polite. 79. Guys don't care about how shiny their shoes are unlike girls. 80. Guys tend to generalize about girls but once they get to know them, they'll realize they're wrong. 81. Any guy can handle his problems all by his own. He's just too stubborn to deal with it. 82. Guys find it so objectionable when a girl swears. 83. Guys' weakest point is at the knee. 84. When a problem arises, a guy usually keeps himself cool but is already thinking of a way out. 85. When a guy is conscious of his looks, it shows he is not good at fixing things. 86. When a guy looks at you, either he's amazed of you or he's criticizing you. 87. When you catch him cheating on you and he asks for a second chance, give it to him. But when you catch him again and he asks for another chance, ignore him. 88. If a guy lets you go, he really loves you. 89. If you have a boyfriend, and your boy best friend always glances at you and it obviously shows that he is jealous whenever you're with your boyfriend, all I can say is your boy best friend loves you more than your boyfriend does. 90. Guys learn from experience not from the romance books that girls read and take as their basis of experience. 91. You can tell if a guy is really hurt or in pain when he cries in front of you! 92. If a guy suddenly asks you for a date, ask him first why. 93. When a guy says he can't sleep if he doesn't hear your voice even just for one night, hang up. He also tells that to another girl. He only flatters you and sometimes makes fun of you. 94. You can truly say that a guy has good intentions if you see him praying sometimes. 95. Guys seek for advice not from a guy but from a girl. 96. Girls are allowed to touch boys' things. Not their hair! 97. If a guy says you're beautiful, that guy likes you. 98. Guys hate girls who overreact. 99. Guys love you more than you love them if they are serious in your relationship. 

102 SECRETS GUYS NEED TO KNOW ABOUT GIRLS :)

1. Do not cheat on a girl. We girls talk, we WILL know, and we WILL find out, and we WILL dump you! 2. Be aware of all your girlfriends’ guy friends, brothers, fathers, or anything. They are protective. Every single male friend we have will kick your ass if you end up hurting her. 3. Never ever miss an opportunity to tell her that she’s beautiful. We girls love that. 4. If she slapped you hard, you probably deserved it. 5. Do not be afraid of holding her. If she’s going out with you in the first place, it’s obvious that she likes you and wants to be in your arms. 6. Every girl should eventually get three things from her boyfriend -- a stuffed animal, one of his sweatshirts and a really pretty piece of jewellery. 7. Make sure she gets home safely as often as you can. If you're dropping her off, walk her to the door. If you aren't dropping her off, call to be sure she's home safely. We think that’s really cute and sweet. 8. If a guy is bothering your girlfriend, it is your right to beat the sh!t out of him. 9. If you're talking to a female friend of yours, pull your girlfriend closer. It’ll make her feel secure that you love her more than the other girl. 10. Never ever slap her, even if it's just in a joking way. Even if she swats you first, and says, "Oh, you're so dumb" or something, never make any gestures back. 11. Go along with her to a chick flick once in a while. She doesn't care whether you enjoy it or not, it just matters that you went with her. 12. If you're officially dating, and you're introducing her to your friends, you'd better damn well introduce her as your girlfriend. Or else. 13. Girls are fragile. Even if you're play fighting/wrestling, be very gentle. Let her win once in a while. 14. Memorize your girlfriend’s birthday. You forget her birthday and you're basically screwed for life. Not gonna lie. 15. Don't drench yourself in the cologne, but smell good. 16. You don’t have to spend a million dollars on the Birthday/Christmas/Valentine gift. It doesn't have to be expensive, or cost anything but it has to be meaningful. 17. Don’t ever lie to us; we always find out. 18. Don’t say you understand when you don’t. That’s bad. 19. Remember: Girls are pretty, but yours is the Prettiest! 20. Saying something sweet might get you off the hook; but doing something sweet will always get you off the hook. 21. Size does matter, but only to hoes; not girls that want relationships. 22. No matter what you say, your ex-girlfriend is a hoe. Don’t bother trying to convince us otherwise, that is a bad idea 23. It’s good to be sensitive, to a point. 24. If you did something wrong, apologize. Even if you didn’t, do it anyway. 25. You did something bad. I seem cool with it. I'm not. (See directly above.) 26. We are self-conscious by nature; we can’t help it. Let it be. 27. We don’t shave our legs every day so just get over it. 28. Shave your face, no matter how cool you think your goatee or beard or mustache looks, we probably hate it. We like you clean shaven. 29. Show off a little, we think it’s cute. 30. You are our boyfriend, our man, our protector, whether you know it or not, you are; act like it. 31. You are cute in raglan-sleeved T-shirts (two-toned baseball undershirts). 32. We love it when you hug us from behind and whisper in our ear. 33. "Fine" is NEVER an appropriate response when I ask you how I look. 34. Most of the time when I fantasize, it's about you. Don’t obsess over that. 35. I expect you to call me. If you don’t, you go down. 36. I'm more forgiving of you than I really should be. Don’t you dare take advantage of that. 37. When I compare my flabby tummy to a kangaroo pouch, say nothing. 38. You look hot in hooded clothing items. Always. 39. You should never tell a girl what to do. Ever. 40. Any decent man will ask a girl out to her face. I mean; if you aren’t man enough to ask us out to our face, who says you’re gonna be man enough to our boyfriend at all. 41. Girls are very impressed when you ask them for advice. Unless its about another girl. 42. I'm unimpressed with a man who doesn't take the lead. 43. When in doubt, go with the shirt that matches your eye color. 44. You're sexy when you're shaving, fixing things, wearing a white T-shirt and jeans, driving, eating a peach, holding a baby. 45. Girls need to hear how you feel about them. Often. Tell her now. 46. A girl wants to be the best thing that ever happened to you--and for you to recognize this and tell her. 47. If she’s not feeling loved, she will start looking.... 48. We like it when you tell us what you're thinking, even if you don't know yourself. It’s cute. 49. It's cheating as soon as you're doing something with her that you wouldn't want me to see, hear, read... 50. For the record: I'd rather you break up with me than cheat. 51. We can fall in love with you without really knowing you, if you are an @ss, we will find out, and we will get over it. Fast. Don't ruin it. 52. You like her, make a move. Don’t just sit there, you will fail, and you won’t get her. 53. Baseball players are hot. The sport makes you skinny and your arm muscles… well, it’s hot. We’ll go to all your games even if we hate baseball. 54. When you compliment us, we aren't sure how to accept the compliment without leading you on or reject the compliment without hurting you. So just bear with us here. 55. WE HATE BEING LED ON! If you think it's bad being led on by a girl, try being led on by a guy. 56. We like it when guys are willing to have an actual relationship, not just a one-night stand. Most girls don't like pimps or players, just guys who like ONE girl only. 57. But don't be obsessive. Major turn-off. 58. Call sometimes, just to say hi, not for a certain reason. When we see your number on caller ID, our heart always skips a beat. Try calling just to say good night, or good morning, its soo adorable! 59. BE HONEST! 60. Don't ONLY tell us what we want to hear. We HATE that. 61. At sleepovers, if you wonder what we talk about, quit worrying. It really is only you. 62. If you catch us staring, it is most likely because we're spacing out, not because we really stare at you. Unless we smile when you notice. Then you either look really hot, or we like you. 63. We like it when you hold us when we're crying. It's good to feel loved and safe. 64. Don't go to our friends to talk about us. Come straight to us. 65. Don't tell us you love us unless you are positive you mean it. If we don't say it back, it's just that we really want to mean it when we say it. Don't say it right away, then it shows lack of commitment. 66. We like our hands to be held and our waists to be touched. 67. We like you to kiss our hand and cheeks and forehead (esp. forehead!!), not just shove your tongue down our throats. We do like to breathe. 68. We like it when you're tender, but don't lose your masculinity. 69. Do chivalrous things when we least expect it (ex. holding doors for us). 70. As surprising as it may be, while guys might actually look at personality, the first thing girls look at tends to be looks. We're not going to see you and think, 'I wonder what his personality is like!' Terrible, but true. 71. If we love you, and you’re hurt on the basketball court, rolling on the floor in pain; we’re hurting more just watching you. 72. We LOVE it when you get nervous around us. It's adorable! Don't think you have to be Mr. Cool Guy all the time. 73. Don't play hard to get. We’ll get bored and move on. 74. If you don't call us, then we will spend hours thinking about why you never called, and we will waste a lot of time thinking about it, eventually coming to the conclusion that we don't like you anymore. 75. We lost interest quickly if you lead us on but never take action. 76. We might seem to flirt a lot, but a girl always thinks about the one guy she really likes right before she falls asleep. 77. When a girl likes a guy, she subconsciously gives him a song that makes her think of him every time she hears it. 78. If guys do the same as girls do in #77, tell her what song reminds you of her. 79. Randomly compliment girls in conversations. If you're talking about sports, be like "Oh, by the way, that shirt really made your eyes look green today." It totally throws us off, and we love it. 80. Ask us about how we're doing once in a while, and at least pretend to be interested. 81. If we're not talking to you, we secretly want you to talk to us first. 82. Play with our hair without being like a gay hairstylist. 83. We get really happy when you show any sign of interest. Don't just do it and then never do it again. Bad bad bad… 84. Keep up the conversation on IM and phones and in person! Don't be awkward. That’s bad. 85. We will always feel bad if we don't like you back. Not all girls are b!tches, no matter what you may think. We hate to reject you. 86. Ok, so some girls are bitches and they like rejecting boys, but the people who wrote this group are not. Better? 87. If we say "Let's just be friends", we really mean it. Don't keep trying to pursue us, and don't say ok and then ignore us. That's just mean and horrible. 88. It's adorable when a best guy friend who a girl has thought about liking confesses he likes her. 89. If you’re single, find the one girl who’s always there on the sidelines at your football game, or at each of your concerts, all your baseball games. She loves you. Her excuse may be that she’s there for her brother, but she’s really there for you. 90. After you find that girl, smile at her once in a while, it’ll mean the world to her. 91. Get to know her, you’ll make her year first of all, and maybe, just maybe, you’ll end up liking her. 92. Not all blondes are b!tches. Some are cool. 93. Not all blondes are sluts. Some have morals. 94. In your mind, give every girl a chance. Each one deserves at least one. 95. Girls fantasize too, its just not always about sex. 96. We girls give you guys code names so that you don’t know that we’re talking about you. :] 97. If you’re jealous, it may suck for you, but we think it’s attractive if you really care that much. 98. If a girl blushes when you talk to her, she either likes you or she's embarrassed by what you're saying. 99. Girls don’t really write your name on a piece of paper a million times if they like you, that’s a myth…… sometimes 100. If a girl really likes you, just seeing you will make her day. 101. Even if you aren’t all that cute, and we like you, we think you’re hot. Don’t take advantage of that, take pride in that. 102. Every time you smile at us, it may mean only a little to you, but it means the world to us. Don't take the little things for granted 

He met her at a party. She was so outstanding, many guys chasing after her, while he was so normal, nobody paid attention to him. At the end of the party, he invited her to have coffee with him, she was surprised but due to being polite, she promised. They sat in a nice coffee shop, he was too nervous to say anything, she felt uncomfortable, and she thought to herself, "Please, let me go home..." Suddenly he asked the waiter, "Would you please give me some salt? I'd like to put it in my coffee." Everybody stared at him, so strange! His face turned red but still, he put the salt in his coffee and drank it. She asked him curiously, "Why you have this hobby?" He replied, "When I was a little boy, I lived near the sea, I liked playing in the sea, I could feel the taste of the sea, just like the taste of the salty coffee. Now every time I have the salty coffee, I always think of my childhood, think of my hometown, I miss my hometown so much, I miss my parents who are still living there." While saying that tears filled his eyes. She was deeply touched. That's his true feeling, from the bottom of his heart. A man who can tell out his homesickness, he must be a man who loves home, cares about home, has responsibility of home... Then she also started to speak, spoke about her faraway hometown, her childhood, her family. That was a really nice talk, also a beautiful beginning of their story. They continued to date. She found that actually he was a man who meets all her demands; he had tolerance, was kind hearted, warm, careful. He was such a good person but she almost missed him! Thanks to his salty coffee! Then the story was just like every beautiful love story, the princess married to the prince, and then they were living the happy life... And, every time she made coffee for him, she put some salt in the coffee, as she knew that's the way he liked it. After 40 years, he passed away, left her a letter which said, "My dearest, please forgive me, forgive my whole life's lie. This was the only lie I said to you---the salty coffee. Remember the first time we dated? I was so nervous at that time, actually I wanted some sugar, but I said salt. It was hard for me to change so I just went ahead. I never thought that could be the start of our communication! I tried to tell you the truth many times in my life, but I was too afraid to do that, as I have promised not to lie to you for anything... Now I'm dying, I afraid of nothing so I tell you the truth, I don't like the salty coffee, what a strange bad taste... But I have had the salty coffee for my whole life! Since I knew you, I never feel sorry for anything I do for you. Having you with me is my biggest happiness for my whole life. If I can live for the second time, still want to know you and have you for my whole life, even though I have to drink the salty coffee again." Her tears made the letter totally wet. Someday, someone asked her, "What's the taste of salty coffee?" She replied, "It's sweet."

WHAT HAPPENED??

I look into your eyes, but see nothing there. 

What happened to the love, that we use to share? 

I reach out for your hand, and it feels so cold. 

What happened to the warmth, that it use to hold. 

I never thought a love, like ours would ever die. 

I never thought you, could ever make me cry. 

It use to be so special, like a dream come true. 

You were the one for me, and I was the one for you. 

Now things have changed, we've fallen apart. 

You're not the same person, that once touched my heart. 

Don't say you need time, cause time is all we had. 

I'm tired of being hurt, and feeling so sad. 

There's nothing left to do, but go our own way. 

The question of "what happened" will be answered some day.

"THE RING"

Would you give up your wedding ring for anything in this world? See how the token of love from your beloved can lead to tragedy.. A girl was sitting on a chair at the gas station she worked at. She looked up and saw her boyfriend walk in. As he was looking at snacks, a man walked in and pointed a gun at her. He had been admiring her ring her boyfriend had given to her as a token of his love. When he asked her to give it to him, she said no. Her boyfriend looked up just in time to see her shot. He ran over to the killer and beat him over the head with a hammer that was for sale. Then he ran and called 911. When the ambulance came, he was sobbing uncontrollably near his girlfriend. The doctor came over and felt for her pulse. Then he stood up and said she was still alive. Later at the hospital, as he was sitting beside her, he asked"Why didn't you just give him the ring?" and then she softly spoke"Because when you gave it to me, you said it was part of your love for me and I knew if I gave him the ring, I would lose that love." The next day, she was pronounced dead.

HOW TO LOVE :))

Say it. When you say the words "I Love You", they should carry with them the desire to show someone that you love them, not what you simply want to feel. When you say it, make sure you really mean it and are willing to do anything for that special person.
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   Empathize. Put yourself in someone else's shoes. Rather than impose your own expectations or attempt to control them, to understand how they feel, where they come from, and who they are. Realize how they could also love you back just as well.
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   Love unconditionally. If you cannot love another person without attaching stipulations, then it is not love at all, but deep-seated opportunism (one who makes the most of an advantage, often unmindful of others). If your interest is not in the other person as such, but rather in how that person can enhance your experience of life, then it is not unconditional. If you have no intention of improving that person’s life, or allowing that person to be themselves and accepting them as they are, and not who you want them to be, then you are not striving to love them unconditionally.
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   Expect nothing in return. That doesn't mean you should allow someone to mistreat or undervalue you. It means that giving love does not guarantee receiving love. Try loving just for the sake of love. Realize that someone may have a different way of showing his or her love for you; do not expect to be loved back in exactly the same way.
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    Realize it can be lost.
   Realize it can be lost. If you realize that you can lose the one you love, then you have a greater appreciationof what you have. Think how lucky you are to have someone to love. Don't make an idol of the person you love. This will place them under undue pressure and will likely result in you losing them.
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   Never stop loving. Even if you have been hurt before you should not stop giving love.