It’s been a months and your still wondering about the break-up. You already passed the 3-months rule. You can say na happy ka na ngayon but how can you be sure that you have already moved on? Here are my 10 signs that show na tapos na ang pag eemo sa nasayang na relasyon.
1. Thinking about your ex less
Kapag nag-iisa ka, hindi ka na madalas makarelate sa kantang “love will lead you back..” kapag nanonood ka ng TV at pinapakita ang sweet commercial moments ng coffee-mate, hindi mo na iniisip na you shared coffee together at mas gusto nia ang coffee-mate rather than krem-top (haha!) Hindi ka bitter when somebody shouted his/her name tapos dinidiin pa! And when the day end, you close your eyes, m22log ng mahimbing without thinking of getting back with him/her.
2. Plotting:
Plot – synonyms plan. It’s a matter of ACCEPTANCE. You stop praying na “God sana maayos pa kami at magkabalikan pa” kasi bukas na ang mga mata mo sa katotohanan. The reality, hindi na kayo para sa isa’t isa at natanggap mo na na hindi na pwedeng ibalik sa dati kung anong meron kayo noon.
3. Music:
“When I see your smile, tears run down my face”.. That’s definitely our love song! The first few months, I still get hurt hearing this song pero when you are finally over with your ex, you realize this song is still you’re favorite one. You’re no longer turning off the radio, forward the cd player, skip your mp4 and play the next song. Love songs are still wonderful and it never reminded you about your EX.
4. Pictures:
Kaya mo ng tingnan ang facebook profile picture niya at kapag nakakita ka ng picture ninyo together, im sure you will feel a lil bit sentimental pero hindi ka na naluluha k2ad ng gngawa mo noon.
5. Ending the race:
Hindi mo na kailangang magpasikat at ipakita sa kanya na OK ka lang na nawala siya. You never thought of seeing him/her in the street with some other girl or guy beside you thinking na baka magselos siya at ipamukha sa kanya na KAWALAN ka niya..
6. Not taking revenge:
You found out na, napromote siya sa work niya and you’re very happy for him/her without telling anybody na na22wa ka or kung may nangyari man masama sa kanya, hindi ka rin matutuwa but instead you stil praying na he’ll/she’ll be ok.
7. Looking for him/her wherever you go:
Natural! Pumunta ka ng SM North Edsa hindi dahil dun kayo unang nagkita kundi dahil nandun ang skydome at magla-launch na ang idol mo’ng si Loonie ng album niya. Hindi ka pumunta dun para magbakasakaling magkita ulit kayo. Hindi ka na madalas lumingon kapag nakikipag-inuman ka sa Glory Palm, Barko or Padis point hoping nab aka mag-offer siyang ihatid ka ulit pauwi sa bahay ninyo at kung magkita kayo, hindi ka na lalapit na aligaga sa harap niya, instead you just smile and walk away.
8. Revisiting former haunts:
Wow.. ang sarap mag BORACAY, mag – explore sa CAMSUR, without having your heart aching like before. It never reminded you that, there in that place you both celebrate your 1st anniversary and hoping na masusundan pa. You go there very excited and feel relax to enjoy the nature.
9. Your ex having sex …. with someone else:
Hmmmm.. Naughty one. Kapag daw naiisip mo’ng nakikipag sex ang ex mo sa ibang guy/girl without even thinking na NASASAKTAN ka meaning you already moved on. You heart was not breaking into pieces thinking his/her kissable lips kissing someone and hoping that he/she’s tasting.
10. Reading their horoscope:
You’re no longer reading your ex’s horoscope and obsessing over your ex. Bakit nga ba? You’re reading his horoscope before; because it’s the only way you can predict what will happen to him/her. But now you are reading your own horoscope, kept thinking about your luck in career and love life.
“We must be willing to let go of the life we have planned, so as to have the life that is waiting for us”. -E.M. Forster
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